I complain a lot. The difference is id never complain in a way where id make anyone feel uncomfortable, or to where blame would then be bestowed upon the wrong individual. For example I am very against complaining at restaurants, cause that poor waiter would have gotten an earful from these ‘complainers’ and then relayed to chef who would then mostlikely give an earful to waiter, to which they cannot do anything about. Today at work there were alot of ‘complainers’ it is most certainly not my fault that a server has gone down, I have sufficient technological knowlege that the LAN (Local Area Network) is fucked… But if its blown up i cant fix it. Dont yell at me please.
Yours sincerely Nicole